Hugs can take a lot of forms - there are friend hugs, family hugs, and romantic hugs. If you want to start hugging your significant other romantically (or just aren’t sure if you’re doing it right), here are some tips.
- Steps:
- Think more about the other person than you do yourself. Make sure it is mutual.
- Reposition yourself to be the most comfortable; a romantic hug requires patience. If you try to hug and can’t relax, the other person will sense your tension. If standing is uncomfortable take the other person by the hand and sit. If sitting is uncomfortable find another position .
- Step or move towards the other person, then press your hands and arms confidently around other person.
- Look deeply into your partner’s eyes and let him or her see you too. Much communication happens at a very deep and non-verbal level.
- Ask what would make your partner feel more comfortable.
- Give your partner a surprise hug; hug them when you’re both having fun, laughing, or watching a movie.
- Tips:
- Breath spray helps! Hygiene is of the utmost importance. Body odors will ruin the moment. So will telling him, his shoulder clicks.
- A comfortable environmental temperature is very helpful.
- Come up for air - gazing and enjoying each other adds to romance.
- Respect the hug the other person returns to you; it is like learning a language. If he or she responds lightly or not at all, don’t force a hug!
- The longer the hug, the better.
- Taking small foot steps in a circle is very romantic, as if you want to hug them forever.
- Warnings:
Deep abiding love comes from a committed relationship and like a fine wine is best after a long time.
Don’t expect perfection; expect to be kinder than the other person.
Selfishness will ruin your hug.
Never force yourself on anyone, whether you are in a relationship with them or not.
Do not entrap the other person’s arms.
Source: http://www.wikihow.com/Hug-Romantically
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